wedding road trip

14,000 miles, 200 friends, two lives, one big decision

Roxy and Me

It seems like yesterday that Roxy rolled into our lives, with only four hundred miles on her odometer and all of the tread still on her tires. Back then, Chris and I were biased against cars, seeing no need for them in our walk-friendly city of San Francisco.

Over the past six months, Roxy has become a part of our family in a way that we never expected. After all, she is just a “brilliant silver” 2010 Ford Fusion- a mere material possession. Maybe it’s the fact that we practically lived in her as we traversed the country during the final days before our marriage ceremony. Or maybe it’s that she represented a connection to the country at large every time we passed a Ford dealership. It may sound stupid to you, but it is very real to us.

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We spent our last moments with Roxy on the coldest, dreariest day of the year. We took some pictures, shot some video, and listened to her Sync voice one more time.  As she drove off to meet her maker (Jason Camp of the Los Angeles Media Fleet Division), Chris and looked in the opposite direction to keep from bawling. We will miss Roxy, but the bottom line cost of purchasing a car of her quality just doesn’t jive with our current financial goals.

To borrow from Marley and Me, I have these final words about Roxy, arguably the world’s greatest car:

“What I really wanted to say was how this car had touched our souls and taught us some of the most important lessons of our lives. Roxy taught us about living each day with unbridled exuberance and joy, about seizing the moment and following your heart. She taught me to appreciate the simple things- a drive into the sunset, singing along to the radio, and traveling between the cities of the people you love most.”

Side note: To all the asshats who thought we changed our name to Ford because we wanted to get free stuff, I hope you’ll now find someone else to verbally assault. We’re Fordless Fords… and we’re cool with that.

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  1. jerin qualls Dec 11th 2009

    Bummer man- but six months, pretty good!

  2. Will you buy a Ford in the future or?

  3. foxylife Dec 11th 2009

    She’s a cute car. ;)

  4. Aww, Rox! You totally made the right decision, though I know that doesn’t make it any less hard! BUT you will never forget the trip you went on, and that’s what counts!

  5. I cried. It’s true.

  6. Mike Mesiti Feb 7th 2010

    I just read your story in this months Ford magazine. What a great idea to take that trip and start your life together.
    Congratulations and best wishes for you both.

  7. Thanks, Mike. We really appreciate it. :)


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